However, Morgantown's never ending winter hit, I got lazy and no longer frequented the gym, became stressed out with classes, and let Chick Fil A call my name one too many times. I was a health nut for about 5 minutes and thought thought that I had avoided the inevitable freshmen weight gain. I was blessed to be in a dorm next to Amanda, a CrossFit guru who always encouraged me to go to the gym with her, and ended up becoming one of my best friends. For my first couple months of college, I actually managed to lose weight. Although I didn't manage to avoid it, there are ways around the freshmen 15. We are blessed to be on a campus with a great rec center and a lot of dining options. I was one of those people who said "Oh I'll never gain weight in college! I'll work out and eat right and I'll come back home better than I left!" I laugh at myself now for that. And you know what? It happens to everyone, okay? It just does. It's possibly the scariest thing when venturing into the unknown for the first time.the dreaded freshmen 15. Be it a small or a large gesture, this will be what they remember at the end of the day.Īnd that advice extends to all sorts of relationships, not just romantic ones.Įveryone warns you about it when you leave for college.
Nothing good is ever born from silence and fear.ģ. If something is bothering you or if you wonder if you're bothering them, speak up about it. Don't let another person decide who you're going to be.Ģ. Don't let a significant other define you.
But for me, the best advice I was ever given for a relationship were these three things:ġ. Look, I might be a bit young to be giving relationship advice, and maybe you enjoy Matthew Hussey's work, and if so, that's fine. "If you just stop and think about the situation or who you are for a second, you'd be smart enough to reach out for the Twinkie, instead of waiting for IT to come to YOU!" He doesn't treat a relationship as an investment in a partnership, but rather as a Twinkie at the end of a stick. It's all just set up from an entrepreneurial stand point, rather than a humanities one.
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He barely talks about communication, and instead lays heavy on how to act coy yet confident. He formats men into puzzles that women are too distracted or nervous or blind to figure out.Ī lot of his advice circles around what it takes to get a man, but none of his content addresses what it means to actually sustain a relationship. Matthew Hussey's videos are presented in a way that makes dating into some sort of game. How to Get Back With Your Ex! How to Make Him Melt! How to Stop Attracting the Wong Guys! Get His Attention at a Party! What He REALLY Means When He Says Yada yada yada. Looking into his YouTube profile, his videos seem like, for lack of a better term, clickbait. But I still had this uneasy feeling about him, and all of it stemmed from that first video I had seen. Sure, he had some gimmicky advice products and seemed to cater to women who were down on themselves, but he is a life coach, after all.
While I couldn't find the exact price of the retreat on Hussey's website, an English writer for The Telegraph said her retreat ticket costed over £3,000 ($3845).įinally, I had to look into our third Hussey, the first one I encountered.Īt this point, Hussey didn't seem so bad. It's an investment in themselves, after all. These things don't sound terrible! They seem like sound advice to give someone who wants guidance badly enough to spend a large amount of money. The following days revolve around understanding your goals, other people's motives, and eventually learning to let go of your own insecurities and pushing yourself to take risks in your day to day life. There are tasks before the retreat that are asked of you, such as keeping diaries regarding your activities, emotions, and discoveries.
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